MY TITLE GOES WITH THE STORY OF THE DAY...
Okay so it's almost the weekend, and I for one can not wait. It has been a long day. A lot of things have went down today. I"m tired and in need of a vacation. I had some good news today..I'm performing well at work so hopefully things will line up quickly for me, so I can be rolling in the dough.
So today was the first day for court in the Rihanna and Chris Brown ordeal hear's what's going on that we know for fact right about now the fight started from a text message that Rihanna saw in Brown's phone. OKAY SO ALSO WE SHOULD NOTE THESE FACTS JUST IN ..RIHANNA'S LAWYER HAS OPTED FOR THEM TO HAVE CONTACT DURING THE TRIAL AND BROWN'S ARRAIGNMENT IS SET FOR APRIL 6 , 2009. ALSO, RIHANNA IS WILLING TO TESTIFY IF NECESSARY THIS COMES FROM HER ATTORNEY DONALD ETRA...WHAT'S YOUR TAKE ON THIS NOW THAT WE KNOW THE FULL REAL STORY?!
See the footage here:
http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/Music/03/05/chris.brown.charged/index.html#cnnSTCVideo
OKAY THIS STORY IS STILL SO DISTURBING FOR ME AND CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT THESE FAMILIES ARE GOING THRU...
FULL STORY CLICK HERE
HERE IS THE STORY FROM THE ONLY SURVIVOR NICK SCHUYLER :(
Schuyler told investigators that about two to four hours after their boat flipped in rough seas, one of the two National Football League players on board gave up hope and let himself be swept away, according to relatives briefed by the Coast Guard.
A few hours later, the second one did the same.
"We were told that Nick said the two NFL players took their life jackets off and drifted out to sea," said Bob Bleakley, whose son Will, 25, a former University of South Florida football player, is also still missing.
With former Tampa Bay Buccaneers Marquis Cooper, 26, and Corey Smith, 29, gone, only Schuyler and Will Bleakley remained clinging to the boat.
Then, sometime early Monday, Will Bleakley thought he saw a light in the distance. He decided to take off his life jacket and swim to it, hoping to get help, Bob Bleakley said Schuyler told the investigators.
ALICIA KEYS THE FIRST LADY OF AMERICA ? NOT REALLY SHE IS REACTING TO HISTORY..SHE WILL APPEAR IN GLAMOUR MAGAZINE'S 70 TH ANNIVERSARY EDITION WHICH HITS THE STANDS ON MARCH 10TH
CHECK OUT THIS EXCLUSIVE MTV INTERVIEW WITH DAWN AND Q ...INSPIRATION OF HOW A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE...
NOW I WANTED TO LEAVE YOU ON A POSITIVE NOTE
I CAME ACROSS THIS ON THE TODAY SHOW..5 LOVE LESSONS FROM THE OBAMAS
1. Regardless of how long you’ve been together, you still need to maintain a sense of surprise. Says Obama, "Sometimes, when we’re lying together, I look at her and I feel dizzy with the realization that here is another distinct person from me, who has memories, origins, thoughts, feelings that are different from my own. That tension between familiarity and mystery meshes something strong between us. Even if one builds a life together based on trust, attentiveness and mutual support, I think that’s it’s important that a partner continues to surprise."
The president couldn’t have said it better. Marriages are built on a foundation of responsibility, dependability and predictability. But sexual attraction is based on spontaneity, unpredictability and, to Obama’s point, a little mystery. Reconciling those two opposite poles-- familiarity and mystery -- is one of the biggest challenges a couple faces and it starts with cultivating a sense of newness and surprise.
2. Show a little tenderness. Says the president of the first lady, "If you look deep into her eyes, there's a certain vulnerability." I don’t know about you, but I’ve definitely observed during their interviews together that they do make a lot of eye contact with each other, and I have no doubt he has spent much time looking deep into her eyes. Non-physical intimacy outside the bedroom is key to a loving, intimate sex life and it’s refreshing to have a first couple who is so comfortable kissing, dancing, cuddling and holding hands.
3. Opposites attract. Says Obama: “Michelle’s family life was different, very stable with two parents, a stay-at-home mom, a brother, a dog, that kind of thing. They’ve lived in the same house all their lives…a part of me was wondering what a strong, reassuring family life would look like while Michelle in a way, wanted to break from that model.”
Opposites often do attract, and very often couples are drawn to each other when they indeed come from opposite backgrounds. In many ways becoming a couple is about our individual search for growth and balance.
4. Stay friends. Says Michelle, “Our relationship was first a friendship. It took off from there." In a long-term relationship it’s often a challenge to stay friends with your partner and to keep your friendship expanding. And in today’s world of social networking and Facebook, we’re often so busy “friending” others that we lose precious opportunities to strengthen our friendship with our spouse.
5. Be a relationship role-model. Says the president: "What concerns me the most are children and the way they are treated." Of course he’s talking about social issues facing families – poverty, education, absent parents – but it’s also important to remember that one of the greatest gifts you can give your children is to be happy adults. And that comes down to your relationship to each other. It’s no surprise that the Obama children beam with life. They have happy parents who aren’t afraid to show their love to each other. And that love is contagious.
Hopefully the rest of us will catch on.
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